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Finding Purpose in Tragedy: Meet Sonny Kelly

North Carolina playwright, actor and teacher Sonny Kelly has made it his mission in life to inspire others. He aims to use performance and ministry to connect with people, especially marginalized kids. As a young man in the U.S. Air Force, Kelly felt like he had no real purpose or direction in his life.

Meet North Carolina playwright, actor and teacher Sonny Kelly.

But when he was 26, a family tragedy catalyzed change, and he found his calling. His older brother Brent, who was also in the Air Force and had struggled with his mental health, committed suicide. After his brother’s death, Kelly dedicated himself to a new personal mission: encourage and inspire others, like he wished he could have done for Brent.

He has had many jobs, from church youth pastor to pharmaceutical salesman. Today Kelly is a doctoral candidate in communication at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He is also the creator of “The Talk,” a one-man, interactive play inspired by a conversation he had with his young son about race after the Freddie Gray riots in Baltimore.

Host Frank Stasio talks to Kelly about his many careers, his current pursuit of performance studies and his work to fulfill his new life mission born from tragedy.

 NOTE: This program originally aired on May 20, 2019.  

Sonny Kelly performing 'The Talk.'
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Sonny Kelly performing 'The Talk.'
Sonny Kelly performing 'The Talk' at the Durham Fruit in January 2019.
Adrianne Cleven/Durham Voice/Courtesy of Sonny Kelly /
Sonny Kelly performing 'The Talk' at the Durham Fruit in January 2019.
Sonny Kelly on stage in a talkback after 'The Talk' with his songs Langston (left) and Sterling (right).
Adrianne Cleven/Durham Voice/Courtesy of Sonny Kelly /
Sonny Kelly on stage in a talkback after 'The Talk' with his songs Langston (left) and Sterling (right).

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Longtime NPR correspondent Frank Stasio was named permanent host of The State of Things in June 2006. A native of Buffalo, Frank has been in radio since the age of 19. He began his public radio career at WOI in Ames, Iowa, where he was a magazine show anchor and the station's News Director.
Amanda Magnus grew up in Maryland and went to high school in Baltimore. She became interested in radio after an elective course in the NYU journalism department. She got her start at Sirius XM Satellite Radio, but she knew public radio was for her when she interned at WNYC. She later moved to Madison, where she worked at Wisconsin Public Radio for six years. In her time there, she helped create an afternoon drive news magazine show, called Central Time. She also produced several series, including one on Native American life in Wisconsin. She spends her free time running, hiking, and roller skating. She also loves scary movies.